About King:Sanji: Do you want to know?
Sanji: Because everytime you say that, you end up resenting me for it later.
D: Positive
Sanji: She fell in love with the loan recovery guy her husband had borrowed from, not because it was "Love", but because, in her world, her husband was the one who "Borrowed" and the recovery guy was someone in the position to "Reposesses" or held power enough to illuminate the illusion of being in a better standing than her husband.
Sanji: You have to keep in mind most women believe in a hegemonic masculinity, and this apparent need for "Equality" stems from the obvious insecurity of being lower than the lowest guy in a hegemonic masculine world. So yeah.
D: .....
Sanji: Im not done.
D: Please carry on
Sanji: So anyways, the attention from someone she deemed better than her husband, meant more to her ego, especially if she believed she "Deserved better", which, for some odd reason, most people narcissistically believe they do. How they come to that conclusion, or based on what factors, subjective, but yes, its primal Greed and entitlement. Anyways
Sanji: To her, this mans attention, while his was probably driven by "being chosen", "Lust" and the obvious dopamine that comes with considering being the risk someone takes, when they have a marriage to lose, feeds ones own ego of self importance, when in reality, the woman had her own agenda and her feelings of being persued by a man she deemed better, reinforces her sense of self importance and entitlement. So yeah...
Sanji: What you idiots called love is just a disease pathology, following the web of causation, rather than cause and effect. Its more complicated than it is 2 dimensional. Its stupidity that gives value to loves existence.
Sanji: Any man who puts a woman before himself, not realizing how they are, WILL destroy himself or implode.
Sanji: Men are worse. They go for looks, not caring about the Psycho that lives underneath.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJ8sAsLqDdA